Adult sex toys are devices such as dildos whose design have total resemblance to human genitals used to derives sexual pleasure whereas escorts are discrete sex workers including both male and female whose services are advertised on magazine or personal and agency websites listing the services that a specific escort offers at will. The adverts include an appealing photo intending to seduce potential clients. Both adult sex toys and escorts have however been widely accepted by a lot of people which affects personal intimate relationships with their sexual partners in one way or another. We are going to look on how each of the above affects intimate relationships.
Impacts of escorts in intimacy and relationships
- Emotional abuse.
When one party in a relationship frequently seeks services offered by an escort it leads to deprivation of the other party’s needs and sexual rights since the other party tends to find satisfaction from an escort. This will lead to a massive emotional party within oneself not sure whether how to face the unhidden rejection been given by the partner.
- Sexual abuse.
It is generally said that escorts have the most outgoing characters and exhibit their wild nature to their clients to give the best services. They may be using hormone enhancers to boost their energy which unlike the ordinary relationship partners doesn’t use. With this previous experience the escort seeking partner will expect their lover to act just like the escort does. If he/she doesn’t get to the threshold then partner may resolve to sexual violence and abuse in a bid to get the level of sexual satisfaction as the one given by the escort.
- Breaking relationships;
Relationships where either partner or both are easily broken especially if any one of them discovers the infidelity by the other. It can also be broken if the escort seeking partner thinks that the partner doesn’t give much satisfaction as much as the escort and resolve to keep the sexual client relationship with the escort instead of a relationship.
Impacts of using adult sex toys in sexual life and relationships.
Non responsiveness of manual stimulation from partners.
Continuous use of adult sex toys leads to an addiction of frequently using the toy. The adult toys are more likely to bring one to an orgasm in a very short time of even three minutes unlike manual stimulation. This will create a rift between the partners since the adult sex toys are already giving satisfaction unlike manual stimulation like oral sex.
Just before you get to use a sex toy or have any contact with an escort, just think about the turn that your relationship is going to take since they all pose negative impacts in intimacy and relationships.